Handling Conflict

Unfortunately, we are often surrounded by conflict. Whether it be with family, friends, co-workers, spouse, etc. The ability to deal with conflict helps us to resolve the issue easier, accept fault and move on.

In continuation to our class we talked about the art of communication. We came home with an exercise to talk about our feelings more, and more importantly to listen to our partner's feelings without interrupting, criticizing or offering advice. This is hard to do if one of you always wants to give advice, and tell the other what to do. Try it! You will be amazed at how often you interupt when you are having a conversation. I think we can all work on our listening skills just a little.

Our class talked about the Four Principles for Handling Conflict:
1.Expressing our appreciation for each other
2.Recognizing our differences
3.Negotiating areas of conflict
4.Learning to pray together, or for each other

Quoted from the Marriage Course

The last may be difficult for some to do if you are not comfortable with prayer. I am sure at times we want more for our partners whether it be strength, guidance, or support.

The best thing about the class is we get to take time out of our busy schedules to have a date, have supper prepared for us, meet new couples and to spend time improving our marriage.